The Beckett Glaves Funeral Center in Brantford, has become the first funeral home in Canada to offer funeral services on live webcam. This was the type of funeral Larry Ruidema Zudd’s family chose for him recently.
Larry Rudd, a soldier from Brantford, was killed by a roadside bomb in Afghanistan last year and his funeral service was streamed live from Brantford to his colleagues in Afghanistan and to relatives in British Columbia and Holland who watched the service on their computers at home.
Facebook for Funerals
The new technology has been touted as ‘Facebook for funerals,’ meaning that footage from the webcam can also be watched the next day, which was a help to Larry Rudd’s relatives in B.C since some of them lost visuals of the funeral during the service.
Life Insurance is an Option worth considering when it comes to funeral costs
For those left behind, having to arrange a funeral service for a loved one, online service or not, is one of life’s less pleasant tasks. Having the additional burden of wondering how to cover the expenses of funerals is even worse; which is why many people choose to take out life insurance which has the option to pay cash to the bereaved to cover funeral costs (sometimes cash can be paid directly to the funeral directors).
Parents of Baby Boomers would “Turn in their Graves”
The idea of online funerals doesn’t appeal to everyone, admits Glaves – “The big fear is those crazies on the internet – that mom or dad will end up in their casket on You Tube.” There is also the fact that some funeral homes are attempting to make profits by charging as much as $500 for the extra service (the Beckett Glaves Funeral Center provides the webcam for free).
When you consider that the average cost of a funeral in the US is $6500, according to the National Funeral Directors Association, it becomes apparent that dying is expensive for those left behind; this is worth remembering when taking out Life Insurance and planning ahead is the key.
Take up of Online Funerals is Rising
Around 80% of people are apparently signing up for the ‘sympathy cast’ according to Glaves, and those that decide against the service are usually baby boomers arranging funerals for parents. “They’re saying I would like to do this for me but mom would hate it.” Glaves admitted that his father, who was funeral director before him, ‘would have been horrified.’”
But, according to Paul Generowicz, owner of Sympathynet.com, the technology has been a ‘godsend’ for friends and relatives who cannot physically attend funerals – for instance because they live too far away or are confined to bed (or even prison). This is something Larry Rudd’s mother, reiterated: Zuidema Rudd said that broadcasting her son’s funeral was a comfort and that “it brought our family together without them having to come here.”
Source
Susan Pigg, The Star.com August 2010
photo credit: The National Guard